Syd mentioned the other night when I asked her again what was going on, that a girl at school was leaving her out and didn't want to be her friend.
This is the same little girl Syd had been having issues with. So, I just assumed that because Syd had been mean to her she didn't want to be Syd's friend. Makes sense.
Still. I emailed her teacher and told her the issues I'd been faced with at home. I mentioned the little girl. I commented on lack of desire to get up and go to school. I hoped she'd shed some light on things.
I couldn't imagine this one insignificant girl who Syd never really mentioned before was the cause of all of this drama at home.
APPARENTLY we were dealing with 2's company 3's a crowd and it all revolved around Syd's very first and most important 1st grade friend.
Syd hated school in the beginning of the year until she made this one special friend and then I'd hear her name pop up when Syd talked about school all of the time. Me and Lea this and me and Lea that.
Well the little girl Syd had been having issues with also wanted to be Lea's friend and that's when the trouble started. This little girl wanted to be Lea's only friend. I'm not sure why they can't all be friends. That was not an issue for Syd (according to the teacher)
I was happy to hear that this was a real issue that the teacher had noticed happening with not just Syd but several of the other students being left out. The teacher hoped that it would work itself out without her having to intervene. She had no idea what havoc it was creating in my Syd's world.
She talked with Syd about it and also talked to the little girl. Syd came home that day a new child. Well, not new...but old. She was back to her old self.
I had scheduled a doctors appointment the same day I sent the email....I kept it even though I had wondered if the other issues were more anxiety related and would also go away.
I don't think so.
They took an x-ray of her stomach and there was some major blockage. We tried some things over the weekend to clear it up and had her follow up x-ray today. It didn't seem to do anything. We are going to try some other things and hope things eventually work their way out.
I can't imagine though that it isn't somehow affecting her. Her moods especially. She doesn't feel good and when I don't feel good I am not a happy person either.
We are working on it and making good progress all around. It's so nice to have you back Sis....most of the time any ways :) ha ha
xoxo mom
Picture questions. Skulls are on EVERYTHING right now. Try and find something that doesn't have a stinking skull on it. We didn't intentionally do it skulls, it just worked out that way with colors. My boys are into the pirate thing. and also the star wars thing. and also a dragon on a train full of dinosaurs fighting each other with lightsabers thing. :)
We bought most of the clothes at G.ap.
The final reveal won't be until after Christmas because it's my Christmas card picture :) and yes....I got one with all 5 kids in it. and they are all looking at the camera. smiling ? no. but looking at the camera ? YES !!!! and more importantly...nobody is c r y i n g.
SOOO over the moon happy.
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